Short and sweet and to the point , yes he was tethered to his Mom, and I didn’t know he was seeing anyone until , she knocked on his door, and ask to pack up her pots and pans .
Of course as our relationship grew , I began to witness a bond with his Mom that was not right , and increasingly understood , the 2 were #1, as his relationship of almost twenty years ended . Over me over our sons it was Mom, was was until a few months ago …
In our social sets or in public ,he didn’t behave like a husband , or a lover.. nor a friend .
Definitely not demonstrating he cared or was interested which I felt was an emotional issue .
Not that he was demonstrating closeness to his Mom , but they were confidants . Over anyone else …
Kind compliments came from friends , or strangers but never him. After our sons were born I had their love , trust and affections and fun.
That challenged him.
Defiantly the a solitary man.. the reserved , cold nature was hard to ignore
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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