Charlie Mc Cready How does a targeted parent get there ?

Good, wonderful, loving, caring mothers and fathers all over the world ask these questions: What the hell is happening? Why did this happen? Did I do something wrong? How and when will this nightmare ever end? What can I do for my child/ren? Why is my ex/partner/spouse doing this when it’s so damaging and hurtful not only to me but our child/ren too? So many questions, and so much guilt, anger, frustration, isolation, shame, confusion … it’s the most traumatic experience, and so little supported and understood by those who are positions to support but often fail to see the alienation. First of all, in any child custody dispute, checks and risk assessments must be carried out. Has the target/alienated parent been cut off from their child/ren because of abuse? No? Then the assessment must check the aligned/favoured parent too. Is it the case that there is psychological abuse going on by a narcissistic parent who has indoctrinated and coercively controlled the child/ren into their shared persecutory delusions about the ‘target’ parent? Is this same parent lying and manipulating by way of a vendetta or need to hurt the other parent in the worst possible way by seeking to destroy the child’s loving attachment bonds with their other loving, caring, healthy-minded parent? Is this all about the parent having their own needs (emotional and psychological) met? Parental alienation has to be understood, detected and urgently, immediately acted upon to end the pain and suffering of so many through misdiagnosis or lack of seeing through the enmeshment, manipulation and lies of the alienating parent.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited