Knowing that someone will be there when you lose, when you fall, when you snort ugly tears.
Friendship is knowing they will ask you twice, ‘how are you, really?’ And they will not accept your answer of fine, when you are anything but.
Friendship is showing up for the worst of times, as well as the best, and knowing which one is the most important.
Friendship is building another’s self-esteem, realising the gift they have given you by allowing you to do so, and never using that gift for anything but good.
Friendship is every colour of the rainbow and all the hues in between. The good, the bad, the ugly, the glorious, the beloved and the brilliant.
Friendship is hanging on when that person is cocooned, waiting for them to re-emerge, ready to accept their changes, knowing they are still the same, to you.
Friendship is a gift, a blessing, a joy.
Be the friend you seek to have. And be that friend to yourself too.
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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