Craig Childress PsyD Resources

Resources.

You need resources to support you.

This pathology tries to destabilize you in every way possible. You need support. You have support. Let’s talk about that over coffee and crumpets this Sunday, 8:00 Pacific on Facebook Live.

I’ll talk about booklets and handouts. I’ll talk about what Dorcy does and what I do, we do different things to the same purpose, restoring you and your kids back to normal.

I’ll talk to you about your path moving forward – treatment not custody. You’re in the leadership position. You’re the healthier parent. The other parent is leading the family to destruction. The child is giving you the problem because you can solve it.

So let’s do that. Let’s solve it.

It starts with a plan. Let’s get your feet under you and develop a plan. It’s always the same pattern. Some of you are in the narcissistic-dad pattern, that has a higher spousal abuse feel. Some of you are in the borderline-mom pattern, that pattern has higher anxiety and false allegations.

But it’s pattern. You do this, it does that. It fights about everything. Everything. Set your ground. Make it fight about what YOU want to fight about – treatment not custody.

You need mental health support. So let’s set about getting you that. You’re going to have to be smarter than your mental health people. Sorry. That should never happen but it has happened here. We’re fixing that.

But we don’t want to lose your children as the plane we’re flying is being fixed. Twenty years from now, everything is fixed. That doesn’t help you now today.

Let’s talk about resources you can bring to your battle with the mental health people and broken systems. Start by shifting the ground you stand on from custody to treatment – you want a written treatment plan, for that you’ll need a diagnosis – the treatment for cancer is different than the treatment for diabetes.

Is there a shared persecutory delusion, also called an induced persecutory delusion. It’s a real thing. Melanie Greenham explains it all in our articles available on ResearchGate. You have resources.

How do you use them to best effect? Let’s talk about that this Sunday over coffee, 8:00am Pacific on Facebook Live. I love the Internet.

Craig Childress, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist, CA PSY 18857

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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