The term ‘broken home’ needs to be binned. Homes that are within one family member who is no longer there for whatever reason, can function perfectly well and happily. Loss of a loved one is heartbreaking, of course, but that doesn’t condemn a family to being broken. It’s an old-fashioned, derogatory, judgemental term that stems from the time when divorce was condemned. But with parental alienation, the loss (and coerced rejection) of a parent has been inflicted on a loved, loving ‘target’ parent and their child. It is not the home that is broken, but the pathology of the alienating parent, and the system that fails us.
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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