It should never cease to amaze you when your toxic family members
come at you projecting all of who they are onto you. They demonstrate a dogged refusal to own any of their behaviors, twisted thoughts, and atrocious behaviors. When you take a step back from the relationship, they also show the audacity to act shocked and offended.
This type of crazy-making is core to these types of people. They thrive on manipulation. When you stand for yourself, they criticize you. When you confront, they belittle you.
There is no point in engaging in these dynamics. This is not a sustainable relationship. This is an ongoing battle against the odds that cannot be won and will not end.
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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