Disordered Family Members by Sherrie Campbell PhD

Severely character disordered family members are completely oblivious to the fact that we know they do not love others. They are too selfish to love which means they resent having to give anything of themselves.

We know when we are loved and when we aren’t. We know when the things they have done to us are wrong. Their abuse may confuse us because they are supposed to love us, but we know deep down when we are being abused and that there is something not right with them.

To stay connected to our family means we must justify our abuse, with the same excuses our abusers tell us why they mistreat us. For too long, we go along to get along only to see that nothing changes. Who they are and how they choose to treat us is 100% their choice.

The mindset to hold is that our family members choose to manipulate and abuse and masquerade it as love. This doesn’t mean we have to continue buying into it. We can also make the choice to totally disengage from them. That can our choice.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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