There were other women, there was the trauma bond and confidant relationship with his Mom. He preferred women friends . Communicate was scant from him, it became futile to speak of putting in more effort of being romantic .
And yes projected blame , from his friends and family that I was not worthy .. and crazy and at fault .
Not interested , detached from reality , no one could please him .. he never put in the effort to move forward, to grow..
I’m sure there’s a lot I don’t know, but I know he expected to be treated like a king and he did not do well as a head of house and I was a handy scapegoat .
Glad that’s long over.. I allow his delusions and illusions.
