Life with a narcissist is a prison.
You are not a partner.
You are a possession.
A trophy when they need to show off.
A distraction when they’re bored.
A nuisance when you have needs of your own.
They don’t want a spouse.
They want a puppet — one they can box up, shelve, and dust off when it benefits them.
Try asking for respect.
Try holding them accountable.
Try having a boundary.
Watch them rage.
Because your only “role” in their life is to meet their needs and protect their image.
If you dare ask for more —
You become the problem.
You become “too much.”
You become their target.
This is not love.
It’s captivity dressed up as commitment.
You don’t have to stay.
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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