I have to post this.
It’s not because I think all men are bad.
We need this ladies for our own mental health.
Some of the things below are part of why I struggled through panic attacks.
I’ve chosen to be single for 4 years.
The number of women who aren’t interested in pursuing anything with men right now is honestly astonishing. It’s not just a trend, it’s a quiet, collective shift. Women are tapping out…mentally, emotionally, spiritually. They’re not bitter, they’re not heartless… they’re simply exhausted.
Exhausted from the constant cycles of disappointment. Exhausted from giving love that isn’t reciprocated. Exhausted from having to play roles they were never meant to play: lover, healer, therapist, mother, peacemaker… all while getting the bare minimum in return.
Y’all really turned women all the way off.
It wasn’t just the lies or the cheating. It was the gaslighting. The breadcrumbing. The emotional unavailability. The way men pursued them passionately, only to neglect them once they had them. The way “effort” became a foreign language, and consistency felt like a rare luxury.
Women are tired of explaining how they deserve to be treated. They’re tired of reminding grown men about basic respect. They’re tired of lowering their standards just to say they have someone. So they’re stepping back. And stepping up….for themselves.
Now, more women are pouring into themselves. They’re choosing peace over partnership. They’re traveling alone, healing alone, building alone. They’ve stopped waiting for a man to choose them, because they’ve already chosen themselves.
It’s not that they don’t want love. It’s that they refuse to settle for something that looks like love but feels like emptiness. And until someone comes along who adds peace instead of problems, who brings security instead of stress, they’re perfectly fine staying single.
And honestly? That’s not a loss. That’s self-respect.
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