Alienator’s Perception of the World

I saw this picture on my Facebook group page. It visually portrays how we try to protect our children, and they don’t know the harm around them – which is how it should be. Long may they be children, innocent and carefree! ⁠

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Unfortunately, the alienating parent’s perception of the world as being ‘shark infested’ and dangerous is shared with the child. Namely, they’re told they should be protected from us, a loving parent. The only ‘dangerous waters’ for our child are the ones full of manipulation, emotional turmoil, fractured relationships with us, and trauma bonds with the ‘favoured’ parent. ⁠

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The child doesn’t see the trouble they’re in. They’re enmeshed and aligned with the alienating parent and may not, for some time, perceive it’s not as calm as they believe. It’s turbulent, and the psychological abuse hides beneath the surface. ⁠

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The challenge lies in bridging the gap between the children’s perception and the actual risks they face. Sadly, they have to see it for themselves. They have to tread water, trying to survive this experience and we have to as well. We have to become like lighthouses showing them the way. ⁠

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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