The strange thing about good people is that they’re the easiest to break up with.
They don’t cling, they don’t beg, they don’t threaten to kill you or hang themselves.
You only need to play games in their faces, and that’s it. It doesn’t matter how deeply in love they were with you, they will see themselves out of your life.
They will glow after the breakup, and you’ll know you were the problem.
Perhaps you lied in the beginning, and they trusted you, but you made it your habit.
Perhaps other people have been accommodating your lies because they didn’t have options. After all, they were not that invested in their own growth.
So you came to believe that you’re something special.
What you don’t realize is that good people always have options. They
Their biggest option is not someone else but their own space and peace. They can always live peacefully by themselves, and that’s their superpower.
So you can’t threaten them with, ‘Where will you go? You’re too old. You’re no longer handsome. You have too many children.’
Good people may love you wholeheartedly, but you must not mistake it to mean that they’re stuck with you.
They’re committed, but their commitment is a choice. You’re better off paying your part of the bargain instead of getting comfortable.
Most people who say they’re unlucky in love actually met someone good along the way, but they took too long to shape up.
If you don’t tame your ego and your attitude on time, you’ll wake up after you’ve lost the only person who cared for you so deeply as to be with you through thick and thin.
(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)
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