When someone with controlling or narcissistic tendencies, such as an alienating parent, accuses you of dwelling in the past and not moving forward, it’s often a strategic move to deflect accountability for their own hurtful actions. By making such accusations, they aim to avoid facing the consequences of their past (and present) abusive behaviour while simultaneously perpetuating their harmful actions. This tactic allows them to shift the focus away from their wrongdoing and maintain control over the narrative. In reality, these accusations mask their unwillingness to acknowledge the pain they’ve caused and their ongoing psychologically manipulative abuse that continues to harm you, the children, and the family dynamic.
I’ve been through this myself. Reach out if I can help you with the coaching I offer.
This is all I have heard for decades !
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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