“The Narcissist’s Playbook: Momma’s Perfect Boy”
Some women carry the heaviest emotional burdens without realizing they’ve stepped into a toxic triangle—a relationship with a narcissistic man raised by an enabler. His mother coddled him, convinced him he could do no wrong, and now he brings that entitlement into every romantic relationship he enters.
These men are charming, at first. But behind that charm lies a deep inability to take accountability, an emotional void, and a sense of entitlement that leaves their partners depleted and questioning their worth. They demand everything while giving nothing, dismissing emotions, invalidating concerns, and twisting reality to avoid blame.
The mother often looms in the background, refusing to see any fault in her son, defending him no matter what—even in courtrooms, when his wrongdoings are undeniable. She paints him as the victim and others as liars. This enmeshed bond keeps him from forming healthy boundaries or seeing his own toxic patterns, while his partner is left to shoulder the blame and compete for attention.
I’ve lived this dynamic. I’ve seen how the mother enables, excuses, and even justifies behavior that is damaging and abusive. It’s disgusting. Even now, while court proceedings are happening and the evidence is crystal clear, she denies it all, claiming her son is innocent and being falsely accused.
To make matters worse, she infantilizes him, calling him “Mommy’s perfect boy” and leaving comments like, “Mommy loves you. You’re amazing. It’s hard to watch these lies because they’re all false. Mommy loves you.” She even congratulated him publicly on a “new wife,” playing along with his charades while he’s still legally married. She has no problem supporting this behavior, validating his delusions, and encouraging him to continue deceiving others.
For those who’ve found themselves in this dynamic, let me say this: You are not his mother, and it’s not your job to fix what she broke. His lack of accountability is not your burden to carry. His unresolved trauma is not your responsibility to heal. His inability to show up as an equal partner is not your failure.
Walking away doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it means you’ve chosen to protect yourself. Reclaim your power. Set boundaries. And know this: You deserve a love built on mutual respect, emotional safety, and equality—not one built on imbalance, entitlement, and manipulation.
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