“ Good “ Woman

My ex taught me a lesson:

no matter how good of a woman you are, you will never be enough for a guy who isn’t ready to be a man. I don’t matter how much love, care, and effort they give in, if one is not mature or willing enough to become a man, nothing shall work in that relationship.

Being a “good woman” means being kind, supportive, and loving. But if the guy doesn’t value those qualities, it’s not your fault. You can’t make him appreciate you or grow up when he’s not ready. A real man understands responsibility, respects your worth, and works with you to build a solid relationship.

Sometimes, we hold on hoping the other person will change. Fact is, change happens from within, and you cannot make someone change. When the man does not want to be one-to commit, communicate, and care-then end.

This lesson is not one of bitterness. It’s about knowing your value and not settling for anything less. You deserve someone who is willing to be the partner you need, who appreciates the phenomenal woman you are. Don’t waste your love on some bum who’s unwilling to grow up.

Neena Gupta.

ⓒ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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