Stability

A man needs a maid – Neil Young

I have met men who verbally express how peaceful my home is . That makes some uncomfortable, or I’m a witchy !

I achieved balance , I achieved peace , after a very difficult, abusive marriage . A battle hard fought ; will never sacrifice for anyone . It’s lovely when folks get it and join me there 🙌🤩🙏💯

LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE!!!!!

Men attend to Women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE, but in most cases, men do not Marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY.

Let me explain

A man can Love you and not Marry you. A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.

What I mean by Stability is “Peace of Mind” I have seen some guys who made this statement “I love this lady but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.” Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most Ladies thinks is fanciful.

They think whether this woman can build me a home,Can she take care of my kids and I,Can she give me PEACE of mind?. Men don’t like Ladies who gives them discomfort, This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.

It’s the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want. Sex is a pleasure, love is an affection, RESPECT is Stability.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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