Estranged Mom :

I’m reading more and more of targeted , estranged , abused Mom’s , state they are done ✅

No pleasing their child ; it’s a living grief / death of a child who lives

“I recently watched a program that stated, among other declines and deterioration in this world, this family breakdown-a major shift in new parenting skills, values, and beliefs are implemented. This happens roughly every 140 years or so …. Out with the old , in with the new. But my mother was from what we called an old family . She was the last. I knew my grandmother in person -both of them , great grandmother and even great great grandparents names. I know
My family tree and what dish came from who and so on. I am 58. My GG was born in the 1890s. Her mother lived with her mother and even some aunts down the line. granted new inventions changed some of the ways children were reared but I don’t believe respect and family values were tossed out. My mother respected her elders . They “got along” with other family members on both sides to keep the peace for the welfare and well being of the children. so this new generation is telling us that family is expendable? Traditions are worthless? Respect for elders is nonsense ? Keeping lines of communication open to both sides of the family is not necessary? One grandparent is plenty if needed at all? I realize a lot has changed since the wave of new technology-especially in the 80s and 90s when most of these alienators were born-but the rest?? These children are not going to know who they are, all the heritage, not to mention health issues. Why can’t they see what this is doing ? It’s completely removing the human element- limited to what they see fit. It is removing the definition of family except for theirs only. It’s teaching them everything is replaceable, even people. it’s only giving them one sided values. It’s removing the option of choice, removing different views, and it’s teaching them to find only the right view…. Based on parental judgements, And everything and everyone else is wrong if they don’t agree. I wonder what will happen another generation or two from now ? What will their grandchildren be raised to believe in. How more unattached and emotionless can they get. The parents seem to have no emotion when it comes to us except resentment. They can be nice and loving people but then again almost robotic. Cold and unfeeling. No desire to pass on history or items. No desire to learn and teach where they came from. I was told is they wanna know they’ll do a DNA test online . jeez! I’m glad I won’t be around for this future. it just makes me sad my family for generations to pride in their belongings just to pass them down to be cherished and loved . To know the story behind it all. All the effort they went to , that I WENT to, to preserve our family tree and it was tossed out like yesterday’s trash .”