Intelligent Women

*GABRIEL GARCIA MARQUEZ! *

How many men have I heard say they want an intelligent woman in their lives!.

I would encourage them to think through.

The Intelligent Women

they make decisions for themselves, have their own desires and set boundaries.

You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around itself.

An intelligent woman is not going to be manipulated or blackmailed, she doesn’t swallow blame, she takes responsibilities.

The Intelligent Women

questioning, analyzing, discussing,

don’t comply, move forward.

Those women had life before you and they know they’ll still have it once you gone.

She’s here to warn, not ask for permission.

Those women do not look in a partner for a leader to follow,

to a dad to fix their life, not a son to rescue.

They don’t want to follow you or mark the way for anyone,

they want to walk by your side.

She knows that life free from violence is a right,

not a luxury or a privilege.

They express anger, sadness,

joy and fear in the same,

because they know that fear

doesn’t make them weak just as anger doesn’t make you “masculine”.

Those two emotions and the others, all together, make her human. And now!

A smart woman is free because she has fought for her freedom.

But she’s not a victim, she’s a survivor.

Don’t try to chain her

because she’ll know how to escape.

Remember he has done it before.

The intelligent woman knows that her value does not lie in the appearance of her body

nor in what I do with him.

Think twice before you judge her by her age, height, volume or sexual behavior,

because this is emotional violence and she knows it.

Sooooo… before you open your mouth to say what you wish

to a “smart” woman in your life, ask yourself if you are really made to fit into hers.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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