*GABRIEL GARCIA MARQUEZ! *
How many men have I heard say they want an intelligent woman in their lives!.
I would encourage them to think through.
The Intelligent Women
they make decisions for themselves, have their own desires and set boundaries.
You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around itself.
An intelligent woman is not going to be manipulated or blackmailed, she doesn’t swallow blame, she takes responsibilities.
The Intelligent Women
questioning, analyzing, discussing,
don’t comply, move forward.
Those women had life before you and they know they’ll still have it once you gone.
She’s here to warn, not ask for permission.
Those women do not look in a partner for a leader to follow,
to a dad to fix their life, not a son to rescue.
They don’t want to follow you or mark the way for anyone,
they want to walk by your side.
She knows that life free from violence is a right,
not a luxury or a privilege.
They express anger, sadness,
joy and fear in the same,
because they know that fear
doesn’t make them weak just as anger doesn’t make you “masculine”.
Those two emotions and the others, all together, make her human. And now!
A smart woman is free because she has fought for her freedom.
But she’s not a victim, she’s a survivor.
Don’t try to chain her
because she’ll know how to escape.
Remember he has done it before.
The intelligent woman knows that her value does not lie in the appearance of her body
nor in what I do with him.
Think twice before you judge her by her age, height, volume or sexual behavior,
because this is emotional violence and she knows it.
Sooooo… before you open your mouth to say what you wish
to a “smart” woman in your life, ask yourself if you are really made to fit into hers.

