3 Stages in Relationships

Every relationship has three stages…

The first one is the easiest to get through, everything is beautiful, everything is pink, you see unicorns everywhere, there is a lot of kissing, chemistry, attraction, skin, wanting more…

The second is the most difficult, doubts begin to appear, they begin to recognize their imperfections, what lies behind the stun of infatuation that does not allow one to see clearly…

At this stage, most people give up, give up, give up…

The third one is the last and the most beautiful…

Because you accept that you have flaws and that the other one does too, you fall in love with the person, who they are, not what they look like, you fall in love with their flaws, their imperfections, you fix things by talking, you understand that SOS with someone is supporting and caring about each other…

You don’t enter the third stage with just anyone…

Not everyone is shown your soul, and your inner self, and stays…

Only those couples who are more than couples are teams…

Only those who understand that love is freedom, peace…that, for the magic to last, it does not have to be screwed up with tricks…

I hope you will make it…

~ unknown

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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