Alienating parent treats child like a puppet – Charlie McCready

Possessiveness is not love. But when we are attached to an object, a goal, a dream, or another person, even our children, there are feelings that tell you: “If I don’t have that, exactly as I wanted it to be, I won’t be happy, I won’t be whole.” Attachment is connected to the ego. The ego is a construct of yourself that you’ve built through years of conditioning. Control is not love. Control comes from fear. Alienated children fear losing the love of the resident parent. They’ve been turned against the alienated parent, so that would leave them parentless. They cling for survival, out of fear, to the alienating parent. Fear is not love. When a parent is narcissistic, they will prioritise themselves above their child. Alienating behaviour is not loving, it’s about control, which is about fear.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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