A condescending remark followed by, I was kidding, then followed by, can’t you take a joke, is a sign. This sign reads: I was telling you the truth about how I feel about you.
Hurtful words laced in meaness dwell in a lower vibe
Nothing more, nothing less.
Somethings are said simply to make us feel wrong because they (the attacker) can’t handle what is actually right. They intend to take a stab at our soft spot and expect us to laugh – but when we don’t, it’s put right back on us – and that’s a problem.
A joke at someone else’s expense is a sad way to create humor.
Remember the origin.
“When Someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.”
-Maya Angelou
If you receive a little nasty (so-called kidding), don’t take it in; look to the truth; it’s usually their own inner disturbance throwing up on you.
-debbie lynn
“Remember. Whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you.”
– Ziad K. Abdelnour

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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