Charlie Mc Cready – Punishment via the parent / Alienator

I think this post is pretty self-explanatory for those of us who know what this is all about. The alienator is quite capable of telling us we actually have no children anymore, we don’t deserve to see them, we’re no good …. and the reason? They want to punish us, and through doing this are quite willing to punish the children by doing all they can to remove a loving, willing, available parent from their life, from their positive thinking and beliefs, and from as much involvement as possible. These alienators are not mentally healthy. This is not the behaviour of a loving parent, or a person of sound mind. It doesn’t bring our children back to know this, but it is always worth remembering the pathology and that the problem lies with the alienator and not the child. Even though the child is coercively controlled to behaving in ways that align them with the alienating parent, it was not their choice (that’s estrangement and in some ways part of the ‘cutting the ties’ that is a right of passage), because children ideally want a good relationship with all their family, both their parents and not just the bullying, alienating, controlling one.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser .. View all posts by GreatCosmicMothersUnited