Mothering

I married an adult.. getting pregnant was not planned but a very beautiful gift for myself.. I was treated like the enemy , and blamed . I noted the detached fathering , the non interest before and after .. I didn’t plan to mother ex , but to nurture ..I consider his favorite quote , ” growing up is optional, growing old is mandatory ” .. Looking back afforded me the opportunity to note his none growth and non maturation ..

I believe in each family member having a place at the table , and to be heard and valued , but in the marriage I found myself in, I lean towards the kids should have been a priority by ex and myself .. his growth is up to him, and he just never got that .

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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