DNA means nothing to our sons except with his side of the family .Years of being impressed by the millions his parents had , and didn’t mind flouting , were were not his. But he spent as if he were wealthy. Cheap n all ways especially emotionally , making suggestive promises that he never intended to keep, he’s content to continue his lies and toxic bonds , no change there.
My understanding is , laws have been broken, but his secret life and alliances protect his alliances and thievery , until they don’t .. that time is upon him ..Accountability
The trauma bond happens when you love someone, yet, you know they are horrible for your mental and emotional health. The trauma of this has you hanging on to these relationships from hope.
The trauma bond is especially challenging in the family dynamic because you don’t get to choose your family members. The bond you share with them came included in the package. This is powerful because we only understand DNA in it’s narrow definition of genetic family bonds that cannot be broken.
Emotions and genetics are not the same. Perhaps we should give DNA the new acronym of Do Not Abuse. We have the right to separate ourselves from anyone, including family, when they are totally destructive to our lives.
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