Toxic Family Abuse – Sherrie Campbell Ph D

It’s always interesting when a person with no experience with toxic family abuse feels compelled to judge your decisions and experiences. There are many who come at you with “there is a no one size fits all” approach when it comes to no contact.

Abuse is abuse. It’s not about size or amount. Abuse is what abuse is.

This type of ignorance tends to come when definitive boundaries have been set. When you have finally taken enough abuse and you decide to take care of your unique situation with your family, these types of people start with their unsolicited, often arrogant advice and opinions.

These are not opinions/advice you have to take. If they have not suffered what you have, they have no basis, experience or platform to advise you from.

Choose people who support you, whether they have lived it or not. People who support you will trust that you have absolutely made a self-respecting and self-loving decision to better your life.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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