Amused by your suffering – NPD

Sherri Campbell PhD

So much of how we cope in our emotionally dysfunctional family is to become absolutely dedicated to gathering the facts and details of our side of any problem. In gathering our facts, we trick ourselves into believing that we will be able to prove our side, speak our truth, and be heard.

What we need to learn is that emotional abusers purposely leave incriminating evidence in your life because they want to fight with you. They want you to try and prove yourself, your side, and your facts. They live for the chaos of this type of attention, drama, and conflict. Conflict makes them feel invigorated and alive. For them conflict is a source of pure satisfaction and entertainment.

The teaching to take is that a normal human being does not like to see other people, especially those closest to them, suffer. Sadly, emotional abusers view the suffering they cause to their victims as a source of pure amusement.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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