Be ready to roll; wife plans for separation

Make certain that you get the appropriate legal advice for your state. It’s very important to have money put aside, however, it can still be confiscated/account frozen even if it’s in just your name. Put aside cash in a very unsuspecting place and with a trusted friend. Never put all of your “eggs” in one basket. Money won’t buy you happiness, but it may be very necessary to have access to it for legal, housing, food and/or other expenses if you go into a legal battle. I was able to get situated with a divorce lawyer under the radar because I had my own bank account in addition to our joint account, AND I took money out of my own account over time to have cash to pay a lawyer. The lawyer refused to take the cash, so I opened up an account… wrote the attorney a check for the full amount and then closed out the account. It’s not being sneaky – it’s protecting yourself and your children. Every safety net helps.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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