Change ? Not gonna happen

If they were going to change, they would have done it already.

They know it.

You know it.

It’s time to let go of the fantasy that they will make a miraculous transformation, where the clouds part and the angels touch down, instilling keen insight into the narcissist’s brain as to how much of a wonderful thing they’re throwing away.

It won’t happen.

Miracle changes of heart happen in movies. They don’t happen with people who’ve shown you for years what their true character is.

This is why it’s crucial to put an expiration date on more chances, forgiveness, and fresh starts. Because if you think about it, how many of your “fresh starts” turned out to be a rehash of the same ole, same ole?

It’s all just more lies to keep you manipulated and cowering under their rule.

They keep you anchored in the hook…that one thing you want more than anything. Like the Wizard of Oz behind the curtain, they’re just offering you glimpses of your heartfelt dream, while in the end, it’s all just an illusion.

You’ve been down this road before, and you know how it’s going to turn out.

If you struggle with letting go of your toxic relationship that’s making you sick, then I’d love to support you.⁠

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❤️ Coming To Acceptance⁠

❤️ Learning Your Style of Coping Schemas and Overcoming Triggers⁠

❤️ Emotional Detachment While Breaking Free⁠

+ much more that addresses the common struggles of leaving toxic relationships.⁠

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The Break Free Program has been proven to be so effective… therapists refer their own clients to this program.⁠

Love, Kim 🕊️

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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