The goal of any psychologically abusive family member is to make you look insane through the actions of their own insanity. Never will you come across louder, more obnoxious, dramatic or bold people than toxic family members who feel slighted.
When you set boundaries on their outlandish ways of reacting, how abusive they become makes itself plainly obvious. They get loud, they bully, and stonewall hoping you will cower. The goal is to get you to give in and give them their way.
The teaching to take is to create distance, to stoically stand your solid ground, set boundaries and to ignore, ignore, ignore their tantrums.
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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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