Distorted, Disordered Behaviors

Sherrie Campbell PhD

Too many of us give severely character disordered people excuses for their behavior because we desperately want to believe they cannot do better. The bottom line is each person chooses how they show up in relationships and treat people. Our family members absolutely know better, but choose not to be better.

For any person to be better or do better, they must take an invested interest in personal development, self-examination and the desire to be unselfish. All these things require effort. Our family members have no interest in this type of effort.

The teaching to take is that if your toxic family members prefer to manipulate and abuse to get the things they want, there is nothing you can do to change this. You cannot enlighten them on healthier ways to show up. They want life to be easier and view any person who is their life as owing it to them to make that happen.

Not your job.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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