Sherri Campbell , PhD, Learning from Narcissistic

As important as it is to learn about the toxic people in your life and how to remove them, it also important to remember in learning about them you are also learning an incredible amount about who you are. You learn exactly where your weaknesses are and to whom you are most vulnerable. You learn who you can trust with your heart and your secrets and you learn who will use these same things against you.

It is important to focus on what you learn about toxic people and apply it to how you need to change the way you show up in relationships. Learning about them helps you become clearer on what you are no longer willing to tolerate and where your boundaries need to be. They are not going to change, so don’t learn about toxic people with the intent of trying to get them to change.

You have to change. And when you do, you will be braver and more confident when removing them from your life.

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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