Category: Parential Alienation-Child Abuse

White Eagle 3/16/2020

Message from White Eagle, Hopi indigenous on 03/16/2020: “This moment humanity is going through can now be seen as a portal and as a hole.  The decision to fall into the hole or go through the portal is up to you.  If they repent of the problem and consume the news 24 hours a day, with little energy, nervous all the time, with pessimism, they will fall into the hole.  But if you take this opportunity to look at yourself, rethink life and death, take care of yourself and others, you will cross the portal.  Take care of your home, take care of your body.  Connect with the middle body of your spiritual House.  Connect to the egregor of your spiritual home.  Body, house, medium body, spiritual house, all this is synonymous, that is to say the same.  When you are taking care of one, you are taking care of everything else.  Do not lose the spiritual dimension of this crisis, have the aspect of the eagle, which from above, sees the whole, sees more widely.  There is a social demand in this crisis, but there is also a spiritual demand.  The two go hand in hand.  Without the social dimension, we fall into fanaticism.  But without the spiritual dimension, we fall into pessimism and lack of meaning. You were prepared to go through this crisis.  Take your toolbox and use all the tools at your disposal.  Learn about resistance with indigenous and African peoples: we have always been and continue to be exterminated.  But we still haven’t stopped singing, dancing, lighting a fire and having fun.  Don’t feel guilty about being happy during this difficult time.  You don’t help at all by being sad and without energy.  It helps if good things emanate from the Universe now.  It is through joy that one resists.  Also, when the storm passes, you will be very important in the reconstruction of this new world.  You need to be well and strong.  And, for that, there is no other way than to maintain a beautiful, happy and bright vibration.  This has nothing to do with alienation.  This is a resistance strategy.  In shamanism, there is a rite of passage called the quest for vision.  You spend a few days alone in the forest, without water, without food, without protection.  When you go through this portal, you get a new vision of the world, because you have faced your fears, your difficulties … This is what is asked of you.  Let them take advantage of this time to perform their vision seeking rituals.  What world do you want to build for yourself?  For now, this is what you can do: serenity in the storm.  Calm down and pray.  Everyday.  Establish a routine to meet the sacred every day.  Good things emanate, what you emanate now is the most important thing.  And sing, dance, resist through art, joy, faith and love”. [Visuals not of Hopi origin and courtesy of Haida Canadian West Coast] #CoronaVirus #HealTheEarth #ANewWorld

Parental Gatekeeping

J. “I completely  support the  sentiment of your  statement,  but  have  an  issue with the nomenclature.  You  are  not  discussing alienation,  but  you  are  using  that  word  instead  of  parental gatekeeping.  Parental Gatekeeping is  the  action  of  emotionally  and  psychologically  abusing  a  child  as  proxy to  harm  the  other  parent.  In  the  absence  of  relief  from  this  abuse,  the  child  executes  a  naturally occurring defense mechanism using  the  phenomenon of identification with the aggressor to  mediate the neurologically  harmful  glucocorticoid neurotoxicity of  prolonged and  elevated  levels  of stress hormones that  is  commonly,  and  I  believe incorrectly,  called  alienation.  Alienation cannot  be  the  activities of  both  the  child  and  the  adults  around  the  child.”

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In this discussion , he brings up what I have experienced many times , and had to come out of..the suffering of others . History still lives in 14 generations of karmic experiences , both positive and negative as I grasp is cellular inheritance .

I had no choice to accept the grossest negatives; most heartless acts did happen and folks who could have aided me did not …when I had no choice was as horrific as any gas chamber when I was in a chemical straitjacket and the focus was cover up and disposal , weather by design or choice.. Our sons witnessed this as normal, and it was not, is not.. But it’s common.

Facts , discussed here as I believe it also include disclosure of truths that many families have been challenged with at tragic expense and loss that includes money ..

I had to realize that as Dad exited he had his own grand design , and I had to release him to that journey, though parts were very negative due to others that could not be tuned out , there were Blissed and Blessed experiences . At the end, the shadow was so deeply held , that I could step out of “sibling abuse ” and have had no guilt for there has been no effort to contact me as they hold pain, trauma , jealousy and anger …that I have repeatedly tried to step out of happened with Dad’s exit … his gift to me.

I am very aware that he watches over me , as he deeply regretted his failures as a parent and did not have words until those last 6 months to go deep into soul stuff.. Shadow was creating the finality of death , fear and cost etc …My light “work” was clearly positive and rewarded with Dad’s Angel’s showing up at least 6 times that I noted as I sat by him .. Crawling in bed beside him was impossible ; I was made aware of my ” being allowed” to even be there, included the threat of power that I’d be locked up as openly threatened against sister who could not sleep in there house due to hygiene etc .#Negative energy in spades ..

All the while holding space for my inner knowing and adaptation was heroic as I participated in an insane act of such malice and grievance that I was very concerned for the rebound…I have surrendered to others karmic lessons for being accountable in however universal karma , good or bad , as I hold joy to be out from under the illusion that shadow wins .

Corrections are taking place , and yes I have fallen back..falling on my knees at all the injustices and I do have faith in Divine’s grand design .

FaithKeeper 🐠🐟

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Blessings & Peace ,

Dona Luna