Parental Gatekeeping

J. “I completely  support the  sentiment of your  statement,  but  have  an  issue with the nomenclature.  You  are  not  discussing alienation,  but  you  are  using  that  word  instead  of  parental gatekeeping.  Parental Gatekeeping is  the  action  of  emotionally  and  psychologically  abusing  a  child  as  proxy to  harm  the  other  parent.  In  the  absence  of  relief  from  this  abuse,  the  child  executes  a  naturally occurring defense mechanism using  the  phenomenon of identification with the aggressor to  mediate the neurologically  harmful  glucocorticoid neurotoxicity of  prolonged and  elevated  levels  of stress hormones that  is  commonly,  and  I  believe incorrectly,  called  alienation.  Alienation cannot  be  the  activities of  both  the  child  and  the  adults  around  the  child.”

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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