THE DISPOSABLE MOTHER:
A Cultural Indictment of misdiagnosed memories, emotional propaganda and the silencing of the woman who stayed.
There is a quiet war being waged. And the casualty? The Mother. Not the absent one. Not the abusive one. But the one that stayed. The one who broke herself into pieces to keep everything together. The one who gave up her own identity so that her children could find theirs.
The one who fed, clothed, soothed, worked, showed up, and still got labeled toxic.
And what does culture tell her now? Shut up. Don’t complain.
Don’t have needs.
Don’t have feelings.
Don’t be angry.
Don’t be tired.
Don’t be hurt.
Just vanish. Quietly, gracefully and invisibly.
Do this so your Adult Children can finish the story of your failure without you…
Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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