Totally ignoring child’s needs / Charlie McCready

Parental alienation is, at its core, a profound attachment disorder where a child is psychologically manipulated to reject a parent they once loved. This is a form of psychological abuse rooted in coercive control, triangulation, and projection onto the alienated or ‘target’ parent. The alienating parent often engages in a cycle of deceit and manipulation, projecting unresolved personal issues onto the relationship between the child and the other parent. It’s a dynamic where the child’s genuine needs and emotional security are disregarded, with the alienating parent instead using the child as a tool to meet their own psychological needs.⁠

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Many of these behaviours are driven by traits associated with cluster B personality disorders, where characteristics like narcissism, deep-seated fear of abandonment, and hostility towards the other parent can foster an intense drive to “punish” that parent. The alienating parent cannot see beyond their own needs and vendettas, resulting in a delusional mindset where they feel justified in severing the bond between their child and the co-parent. This distorted view places their own emotional fulfilment above the child’s right to a healthy, loving relationship with both parents, disregarding the immense psychological harm it inflicts on the child.⁠

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I have been through the injustice, grief and trauma of alienation, and am totally invested in helping others. As well as my daily posts, I offer 1:1 coaching, and a 9-step program. I’m glad to say clients who do my program talk of gaining emotional and mental resilience and peace of mind, often within just a few weeks of starting. I help my clients understand and deal with their alienated child/ren, the alienating parent, plus how to overcome and survive the many challenges. Please send me a message if you are interested to know more, or you can visit my website.⁠

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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