Why women are emotionally exhausted

“If a man did not receive much respect or love from his father during childhood, he often grows up believing that he is never truly appreciated… no matter how much love a woman gives him.

Not because he doesn’t love her; it’s because his inner wounds are still echoing the lack of validation from his early years.

That’s why so many women today feel emotionally exhausted.

They keep pouring love, support, patience, and understanding into a man who cannot fully receive it, because his wounds speak louder than the woman’s love.

Dear woman, this is not your fault.

You are not lacking. You are not unlovable.

You were simply trying to fill a void that wasn’t yours to fix.

You gave and gave, hoping he would finally see you, finally cherish you, finally choose you with presence… but in the end, you lost yourself.

When a woman constantly gives up her peace to maintain a relationship, she begins to feel it in her body.

Fatigue, anxiety, migraines, hormonal imbalances… these are not just physical symptoms; they are emotional signals.

Her body begins to scream when her heart has been silent for too long.

Dear man, please understand… your woman is giving you far more than you see.

She doesn’t just love you; she holds space for your pain, sacrifices her own peace, and often silences her own needs to support yours.

But she cannot continue this forever.

It’s time to heal.

Not just for the sake of your relationship, but for the boy inside you who deserved love, attention, and respect.

It’s time to stop demanding love through silence and start receiving it through presence.

Healing is the way back… to each other, to wholeness, to peace.

Don’t let her suffer while she tries to love you.

Don’t let her burn out while she tries to keep you warm.

Choose growth. Choose the inner work.

Choose to be the man who brings calm, not chaos.

Because when a man is healed, his love no longer hurts. His presence becomes medicine.

I’m here to support you, not to judge… but to help you become the man you were always meant to be.”

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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