Narcissist hate our happiness

I know this all too well

They can’t bear us being happy. Often when we’ve broken free and started our lives over, much happily without them, they get really inventive with their slander and lies. This dad had arranged to take the children out for lunch, a rare treat, with their grandmother too. He waited to pick them up outside their house, his girlfriend and mother in the car too. They waited and waited. Finally, the alienating mother came storming out, screaming. She leaned in through the car window and asked the girlfriend if she had children of her own because they’d better not go anywhere near her ex. He wasn’t safe, clearly implying he was a paedophile. Fortunately, the girlfriend knew enough that these were the words of a deranged and jealous ex. But when their mother had driven off shouting down the neighbourhood, the children reluctantly got into the car, and reprimanded their dad for inflicting a girlfriend on them (apparently it had all been agreed beforehand). Lunch didn’t happen. The girlfriend wouldn’t sit through lunch pretending everything was okay. The dad took the children home, and they posted on social media how their mother was ‘a beast’ the new girlfriend had run off crying (not true), and their mother would easily beat the girlfriend in a fight. This story exemplifies how the children come out ‘guns blazing’ for an alienating parent, depicting them in a strong, victorious light, even imagining them like in this story, winning an actual, physical fight. Fortunately, this is a happy ending for the alienated dad. He and his girlfriend are happily married and enjoying holidays and great relationships with both his children and hers. The children are perfectly happy and safe. The alienator is still angry.

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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