I know this all too well
They can’t bear us being happy. Often when we’ve broken free and started our lives over, much happily without them, they get really inventive with their slander and lies. This dad had arranged to take the children out for lunch, a rare treat, with their grandmother too. He waited to pick them up outside their house, his girlfriend and mother in the car too. They waited and waited. Finally, the alienating mother came storming out, screaming. She leaned in through the car window and asked the girlfriend if she had children of her own because they’d better not go anywhere near her ex. He wasn’t safe, clearly implying he was a paedophile. Fortunately, the girlfriend knew enough that these were the words of a deranged and jealous ex. But when their mother had driven off shouting down the neighbourhood, the children reluctantly got into the car, and reprimanded their dad for inflicting a girlfriend on them (apparently it had all been agreed beforehand). Lunch didn’t happen. The girlfriend wouldn’t sit through lunch pretending everything was okay. The dad took the children home, and they posted on social media how their mother was ‘a beast’ the new girlfriend had run off crying (not true), and their mother would easily beat the girlfriend in a fight. This story exemplifies how the children come out ‘guns blazing’ for an alienating parent, depicting them in a strong, victorious light, even imagining them like in this story, winning an actual, physical fight. Fortunately, this is a happy ending for the alienated dad. He and his girlfriend are happily married and enjoying holidays and great relationships with both his children and hers. The children are perfectly happy and safe. The alienator is still angry.
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