Sometimes when people come back saying that they miss you, they’re confessing that they’ve discovered that no one can love them the way you did.
They once took you for granted and treated your love like a common thing. Then they tried replacing you, and they were shocked at how impossible it was.
Now they’re crawling back, hoping you’re still stuck where they left you and you’re desperate enough to allow them back.
Whenever people return, always remember how they left.
The way someone treats you when they no longer need you is a true reflection of how much they respect you.
When you feel like you miss that connection, just remember the disrespect.
You may not have moved on to another person, but you have moved onto something more important. That’s self-respect!!
Just because you’re not with someone doesn’t mean you’re still vacant.
You’re a complete person by yourself, and you have the right to take your time to heal and regroup.
If someone else has been flipping one relationship after another, it just shows how uncomfortable they are by themselves.
If they need so much support just to face existence, they have a deeper problem.
Never become the plug-in when someone has failed at replacing you.
They will never value you, and their resentment towards you will multiply because, in a sense, you’ll have beaten them.
They will continue looking while still with you. You’re basically a placeholder. Eventually, they’ll leave you for people who don’t challenge them to change or grow.
In short, it’s also self care when you shut your doors to inconsistent people. You may have a history with them, but when they prove themselves unworthy of where you’re going, it’s a wrap.
Sometimes your feelings can’t think and you have to think for them
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