This is one of the biggest red flags to watch out for in a relationship!
It’s when an emotional abuser won’t take accountability in a relationship.
It’s when an emotional abuser uses blame-shifting to escape taking accountability for how they’ve made you feel.
They’ll treat you disrespectfully, they’ll neglect your needs, and they’ll subtly manipulate you through their words.
But then, they’ll focus only on your reaction when you want to discuss it with them.
They’ll blame you for feeling the way you feel.
They’ll tell you it’s somehow all your fault.
They’ll call you unwell.
They’ll tell you that you need help.
When in reality it was them and their behaviours all along that caused how you felt and that caused your reaction.
Feeling hurt, angry, upset, or betrayed are normal reactions to being treated with constant disrespect or neglect over a long period of time from a cruel and toxic person.
What isn’t normal, is the fact that this toxic person is blame-shifting instead of apologising, showing remorse, and actually taking accountability for what they’ve done and how they’ve made you feel.
There is nothing wrong with you!
Rather there is everything wrong about the way that they’ve chosen to be, and about their lack of empathy and compassion for how they’ve made you feel.
This is without question one of the biggest red flags the gives away a toxic person.
Don’t ignore it, because they know exactly what they’re doing when they do it.
Know your worth, and don’t settle for someone who’s less than you deserve…
~ Mark Smith
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