Priorities

“The day you manage to stay calm

In front of whoever provokes you

The day you manage to stay calm

In the face of the storm

When your silence is the right answer

In the face of noise & foolish words

Then you will have achieved

The greatest of your successes

It is no longer about winning or losing

Being better or worse

Having what you desired

Or not having what you coveted

It is not even about triumphing over others

It is about the fact that

Finally, you have reached the top of a very high mountain✔️

It is to conquer you

Prioritize yourself

Put your mental health first

Your emotional intelligence

Observe & look around you

Don’t judge anymore

Just observe the unhappiness

The lack of self-esteem

The burdens & pains that others carry

Learn to be aware of the lives of others

The more you love yourself

The less you will care about others’ opinions of you

The more you love yourself

The more you will focus on improving yourself & only you.”

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Artist: Andrea Kowch

Pairing by Whispers from the Heart

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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