“The day you manage to stay calm
In front of whoever provokes you
The day you manage to stay calm
In the face of the storm
When your silence is the right answer
In the face of noise & foolish words
Then you will have achieved
The greatest of your successes
It is no longer about winning or losing
Being better or worse
Having what you desired
Or not having what you coveted
It is not even about triumphing over others
It is about the fact that
Finally, you have reached the top of a very high mountain✔️
It is to conquer you
Prioritize yourself
Put your mental health first
Your emotional intelligence
Observe & look around you
Don’t judge anymore
Just observe the unhappiness
The lack of self-esteem
The burdens & pains that others carry
Learn to be aware of the lives of others
The more you love yourself
The less you will care about others’ opinions of you
The more you love yourself
The more you will focus on improving yourself & only you.”
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Artist: Andrea Kowch
Pairing by Whispers from the Heart

Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited
I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse.
As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my
desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven.
I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are
denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child.
I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power..
I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination..
Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative".
It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..
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