Reaching that point in life

I’ve reached this point in my life.

I’ve reached the point in my life where if I’m going to have any type of relationship with an individual who is not willing to be accountable for their hurtful behavior toward me then I’m going to accept this person for they are and leave them where they belong.

You’re not going to be passive-aggressive towards me, gaslight me, or treat me with disrespect in anyway and then try to pretend things are okay by doing something nice for me to try and cover up what you just did.

Your apology needs to be as loud as your disrespect was or you can go back to where you once resided before me.

And the people who support your hurtful behavior can tag along with you on your way out of this door.

You will never be allowed to treat me in any way, shape or form that doesn’t fit in the same category as common decency.

I’m never going to allow that in my life ever again.

~ Cody Bret

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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