Enablers of Psychological Abuse in PA cases

The alienating parent often deludes even seasoned professionals. Their convincing presentation of events, coupled with their projection of all wrongdoing onto the targeted parent, can lead professionals to overlook the true dynamics at play. Furthermore, the weaponization of children by the alienating parent exacerbates the complexity of the situation. Indoctrinated and manipulated, the children become unwitting accomplices in the alienation process, aligning themselves with one parent while turning against the other. Professionals often tend to prioritise the perspective of the alienated child, failing to recognise the coercive control and psychological abuse they have been subjected to. In many cases, professionals focus on the false allegations and fabricated stories rather than scrutinising the person who is refusing to co-parent and collaborate and who is, in reality, inflicting the harm and perpetuating the alienation. This can usually be attributed to a lack of understanding and training in identifying and addressing parental alienation. Not to mention that many professionals in these fields are often overworked, underpaid, and understaffed, further hindering their ability to address complex family dynamics adequately.⁠

It’s critical to acknowledge that parental alienation constitutes a form of familial abuse characterized by coercive control, psychological manipulation, and long-lasting harmful effects on children. This includes spousal psychological abuse directed towards the targeted parent and child psychological abuse inflicted through manipulation and coercion by the alienating parent. Leaving a child in the care of an alienating parent who engages in such abusive behaviour is itself abusive and perpetuates the cycle of harm. Failure to recognize and intervene in cases of parental alienation not only harms the targeted parent but also perpetuates the horrendous psychological abuse inflicted upon the child. We need systematic change. ⁠

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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