As humans with compassion, we tend to be eager to help our loved ones, friends, and other fellow humans out of their problems when we can foresee their “downfall” in certain aspects. However, sometimes we genuinely give out the “help” but then receive the “hate” in return, which could be heart-breaking and discouraging to feel.
While it may seem like the person is “ungrateful” on the surface when they return our “genuine help” with “hate”, which could be confusing. 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐱.
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👉 What most people don’t realize is that sometimes the person, whom we help, returns our help with opposition or hostility (as if they are blind to our help) NOT because they are an “ungrateful” individual – 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐍 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬/ 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬, 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐎𝐋𝐕𝐄 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 – which we are not aware.
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In this case, what we think as the “act of help” could actually be the act of “𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥’𝐬 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬” – If their Soul “𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐬” 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 from within for its own purposes on a Spiritual level.
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👉 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 “𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭” 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 “𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩” 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬, 𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐫𝐞𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. The 3D physical mind is 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞 of the Soul’s past karmas and wishes to experience on a Spiritual level, so the person may NOT clearly know why they are strongly against or are not aware of our “help” – all they know is that they 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 “𝐮𝐫𝐠𝐞” 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡/ 𝐝𝐨 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬, yet we don’t support their wish.
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Imagine that you’d love to do something so much or have an important task to finish, yet someone keeps interfering with your thing – Of course, you would react. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐯𝐢𝐚 “𝐮𝐧𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬” 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
Having a heart full of care and kindness to offer “help” to people in this world is a wonderful thing. However, to actually help people and avoid unnecessary suffering to Self, we should offer our help to the ones who are READY for our help – Not the ones who are NOT READY.
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🌟 𝐒𝐨, 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐬 “𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲” 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩?
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1. They will 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 themselves, and “𝐚𝐬𝐤” for help.
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2. If they are not the type who “ask”, they will at least 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 “𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬” to your help offer or the advice/ guidance instead of rejecting them.
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👉 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐘 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐍𝐎𝐓-𝐘𝐄𝐓-𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐘 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 – 𝐀𝐬 “𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲” 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲.
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