Narcissist ration love – Charlie McCready

A deep-seated need to ‘win’, punish, dominate, and control everything, intertwined with underlying narcissistic tendencies, fuels the destructive behaviour at the root of ‘parental alienation’. Typically, they simply can’t bear it when it’s a special occasion for you, a celebration, your birthday, or especially when it’s your time with your child.⁠

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Often, beneath the surface, they’ve been jealous/threatened by the love the child feels for you. Post-separation/divorce, they’ll do what they can to sabotage it. Your happiness, your independence, your ability to thrive beyond the chaos and drama with them—it all seems to irk them profoundly. For many of these people, hurting you can become something of a mission, and a way to cope with their own unresolved trauma and insecurities. They’re stuck in a cycle of dysfunction, unable to break free from their own inner turmoil.⁠

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But here’s the thing: Your happiness, resilience, and ability to find joy and fulfilment despite their best efforts to bring you down are a profound disappointment to them. In their twisted worldview, your survival, despite their attempts to make you miserable, only serves to highlight their own inadequacies and shortcomings.⁠

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So, what can you do? Distance yourself from them as much as possible and focus on rebuilding, reconnecting and/or nurturing the relationship with your children. Understand that their behaviour is a reflection of their own inner struggles, not a commentary on your worth or value as a person and a parent. Above all, do all you can to find happiness. Your ability to thrive despite the odds is a testament to your strength and resilience. Keep moving forward, keep growing, and keep shining bright, knowing that you deserve every ounce of love and happiness that comes your way.⁠

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Author: GreatCosmicMothersUnited

I have joined with many parents affected with the surreal , yet accepted issue of child abuse via Pathogenic Parenting / Domestic abuse. As a survivor of Domestic Abuse, denial abounded that 3 sons were not affected. In my desire to be family to those who have found me lacking . As a survivor of psychiatric abuse, therapist who abused also and toxic prescribed medications took me to hell on earth with few moments of heaven. I will share my life, my experiences and my studies and research.. I will talk to small circles and I will council ; as targeted parents , grandparents , aunts , uncles etc. , are denied contact with a child for reasons that serve the abuser ...further abusing the child. I grasp the trauma and I have looked at the lost connection to a higher power.. I grasp when one is accustomed to privilege, equality can feel like discrimination.. Shame and affluence silences a lot of facts , truths that have been labeled "negative". It is about liberation of the soul from projections of a alienator , and abuser ..

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