While we live in this “fairytale” world where love is everything and sex means nothing, in reality, good sex is what holds a relationship together.
Good sex, condemned to a superfluous sim, has been thrown to the wayside as a dirty piece of rubbish. At the same time, divorce levels rise and we wonder way.
When I’m talking about good sex, I’m not talking about a fake porno pounding. I mean crying your eyes out, screaming in joy, becoming one with the universe and falling from the sky as you and your beloved become one in an explosion of energy that lights up the skies.
I’m talking raw sex where emotions are honoured, where every expression is held sacred, sex that’s so good that there’s no need for movement as two become one and then melt together.
The kind of sex that’s so good that it’s as if two universes collided.
The more I understand about the human body, the more I do believe there’s a divine hand in it all. The more I puzzle about religions which teach the flesh is sin and sex is even worse.
How could a divine being create us in imperfection? How can that be the case when WE ARE PERFECT.
Sex of course can be done as an act of frustration, a banging of flesh on flesh as two humans pound out their tension. That’s the way we know, yet their is another way.
We may know chemistry, but the secret we have is alchemy. Alchemy, the process of slow sex where two beings melt together in harmony, balancing each other in a magical act of union.
Sex so centred in love there doesn’t need to be roughness, just the beating of two hearts as breath spirals together.
This is the divinely created force that keeps two people together in love and harmony. The force that gives us such deep satisfaction that we want for nothing…
Ever.
~The Art of the Bed Chamber
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