Parental Alienation is a harrowing reality that blindsides many of us. We struggle to comprehend how a parent could inflict such hurt upon their own children in order to retaliate against us, the other parent. Often, the rest of our families, too. It’s a concept that often feels unfathomable until it happens.
The signs of parental alienation can be elusive, overlooked, or dismissed due to disbelief in the severity of the situation. It’s challenging for others, too, to accept that a parent would stoop to such manipulative and damaging behaviour. The alienating parent remains obstinately convinced of their own innocence, deflecting blame onto the targeted parent while portraying themselves as the victim.
The insidious nature of parental alienation is exacerbated by the manipulative tactics employed by the alienating parent, often accompanied by traits of narcissistic personality disorder. They skillfully manipulate perceptions, painting themselves as righteous martyrs and distorting the truth to sway others to their side, including the child. They are highly manipulative and play victim/hero depending on what story they are telling and to whom.
The child, aligned with the alienating parent, becomes enmeshed in their web of deceit, making it exceedingly difficult for outsiders to discern the truth amidst the layers of lies and facade. Despite the presence of warning signs, too often, there is a lack of awareness and understanding among those involved, perpetuating the cycle of abuse and manipulation.
It’s my fervent hope that with increased awareness and education, more people will become equipped to recognise the signs of parental alienation and intervene effectively to protect the well-being of the children involved. The journey toward healing and reconciliation begins with acknowledging the reality of parental alienation and taking proactive steps to address it.
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