Spiritually

* I didn’t write this

Idk who needs to hear this today.. but when you are a spiritual “type” person, and closely connected with yourself, people who date you are going to have very unique experiences. They will maybe go deeper with you than they ever have with anyone in their lives. This can be profoundly healing for both of you, but you have to be careful not to underestimate what Fear does to a person. This could be invisible to you if you take your own courage for granted. As you are bravely making your descent into a person’s heart… like some kind of deep emotional spelunker, you may unwittingly stumble into their “firewall” of shame. This is the shadow material: childhood trauma/ansestral baggage. If they are unable to cope with that getting triggered, they will flee. When this happens it’s less like rejection, and more like admiration, or even envy. At some level they deeply regret not being able to go there with you. That failure could haunt them to the end of their days. They could go on to choose partners who are equally emotionally limited. They’ve consigned themselves to a kind of imprisonment. You can’t access the higher levels of consciousness until you unpack all of the conditioning…
You know this.
If Spirit issues an invitation to a person to do exactly that, in the form of some earth angel like yourself, and that person says no thank you… that is a path of suffering. So be compassionate, you can’t fault yourself for being attuned to someone’s soul, which could be practically begging you to come closer, while their ego is simultaneously shoving you away. You didn’t misread it, in other words. You’re picking up on all of their channels.