Very humbly I accepted myself with a love that has withstood many attempts to take me down , or out …even unalive me
But I’m still here , and I’ve long since accepted the support of so many , I began to accept completion .
Always , to quietly celebrate my Leap Year Birthday 🎊
It’s very cool to empty out the past to the point of self acceptance, forgiveness , empathy , open to dance with the shadow and in facing that , I have reduced the fear and power I’d given them… look at everyone as if they are 3 , and hear them, what do they need?
But look at your own 3 year old self. What did you need ? Try to forgive what lacked the real little 3 year old , and give that child all they deserve , on high …🙏🏼😘
Self acceptance
Most of us spend our entire lives
trying to earn the acceptance
or approval of others.
When all we really need to do
is accept ourselves and allow others
to love us for who we are. Think about it…
All those years trying to please your parents, teachers, boss, family beliefs, and education system.
What level of formal education did you need to achieve to feel smart, accepted or just better than others?
Have you moulded yourself to the standards of society: get a job, get married, have 2.2 kids, send your kids to private schools, live in a house you can’t afford, & work a job you hate just to make ends meet & be accepted?
That’s truly okay,
but if you feel there is more, explore!
What about social status?
How many of us validate our happiness on how many likes or followers you have, while you are painting one picture or illusion to the world but living in your own pain & hell.
We conform or get programmed into being comfortably numb, or feeling like we are on autopilot.
What about your relationship, do you diminish yourself to not upset others?
Do you sabotage or compromise your truth, integrity or belief systems just to belong & fit it?
Do you work in a job you hate just to get a pay check but feel empty inside?
Do you dress in clothes that you like to wear & feel good in or what the latest fashion trends are?
The list is endless, what do you sacrifice for acceptance?
It’s all up to you.
As long as you want to fit in, you are not loving & honouring you, because you are relying on an outside source to validate you.
You are negotiating, diminishing, sabotaging & trading aspects of you.
Because the right people will adore & accept you just the way you are.
If you have to pretend to be someone else or dim yourself down, becoming a shadow of yourself to fit in, you may seriously need to look at why you feel this way or allow this.
Do you really belong there?
Are you dying a slow painful death inside not being seen, heard, loved, nurtured, accepted, feeling safe?
After all these are our basic primal earthly needs.
You have to learn to love, honour,
accept, nurture & protect you.
We teach people how to treat us,
so do you know your worth?
You are perfectly, beautifully you.
We don’t need carbon copies, clones or mini-me; we need to be authentically us.
Remember you are perfectly you for a reason.
When you love all of you in your pure essence, you will radiate love & light from within, showing that essence to the world.
Then we rise & shine.
It is time to be the real, unique YOU.
~ Author Unknown
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