My New Year’s resolution is to keep spreading awareness about parental alienation, to bring about positive change, to help and support those of you who are experiencing pain and suffering, to keep providing daily information, and to let all you loving, wonderful parents know it’s not your fault, it’s inflicted on you, it’s a pathology of lies, it’s abuse that must be recognized by those in positions to help, the ‘experts’ in family courts. I also want to continue providing uplifting content too. Those don’t get the same ‘likes’ and I don’t care, they’re not there for that purpose, but just for whoever needs to receive them – a bit of a virtual hug from me – you are not alone, you’ve got this, and you are stronger than you know. Grief and anger and the negative emotions that come about through this terrible experience are heavy. We must do all we can to stay light and loving, ready to welcome our child/ren into our lives at any time.
It’s perfectly fine not to feel particularly joyful during the festive season when we’re missing people (our children) we love; when we’re struggling financially, feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or dealing with difficult family dynamics. If we don’t feel like celebrating we can take time out. It’s exhausting to put on a brave face all the time. But we also must try not to focus all the time on all the drama, fear, pain and suffering. Our news keeps us low vibe too. But there is good news out there too. Look for the good news. When any feelings of shame or guilt or grief arise, immediately give yourself love and care and forgiveness. These are passing feelings, they are not you. You are love. You are not, in a spiritual sense, lost or separated from anyone you love. Or from Mother/Father/God, or whatever you want to call the source/Love. You are worthy, and you deserve to live in peace, joy, and love. And this is my heartfelt wish for you in 2024.
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