I always stress that it’s not a good idea to share my posts with your alienated children/grandchildren because they are very likely to be insulted and upset. Much as you’d like to educate/support, this can backfire. It is a minefield, and best to tread carefully. These are coerced, vulnerable children, who believe they’re autonomous, and they may be concealing, from you, a great deal of suffering, guilt and confusion. What we often only get to experience is the anger or the emotional cut-off.
However, I always appreciate when people share my posts (including my link) because I’m working very hard to spread awareness. My posts go out on social media every day. I give my time and energy to this because I have been through alienation myself, I have over 20 years of experience, and I’m here to help others with my posts, program and coaching. The posts are free for everyone. To inform, spread awareness and, where I can, to provide some comfort too. You’re not alone. It’s not you. It’s a pathology. Although it is not officially recognised (yet) it is real.
We are up against several well-funded and supported, united lobbies who claim parental alienation not only doesn’t exist but is a dangerous concept. For those of us who have been through it – fathers, mothers, grandparents, step-parents, step-siblings, not to mention alienated children – this is frustrating and upsetting. I hope we can come together, those of us who work in this space – life coaches (parental alienation) such as myself, legal and mental health professionals, those involved in safeguarding, schools, family courts, therapists – and collaborate. I wish I could multiply myself x 12, I am, as I’m sure you can imagine, at full capacity, full-time, doing these posts every day, seeing my 1-2-1 clients, and trying to advocate and engage others who might be able to lobby, support and spread awareness.
I am always glad and grateful when you write to me saying my posts help, and when you can share my work, not with alienated children, but with those who can help me , help you, and help all of us who want ‘parental alienation’ recognised as abusive, disordered pathological parenting which is causing harm to so many.
Thanks,
Charlie.
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